Sorry, didn’t mean it negatively back atcha, just more so agreeing that it’s not normal and something we are going through. I didn’t expect it so we aren’t sure how to approach it or maneuver it since this wasn’t on our radar as part of the process. Sure he has been in contact with the coach of his main sport so this is out of the blue (a bit of skepticism to be had like that phone call about your car’s extended warranty 
).