<p>If your D decides to go to Auburn, you really need to try and get a rec for all of the groups there is possible. Back in the day, sororities did work to get recs for that special girl that they fell in love with during rush, but frankly rush has gotten so big at Auburn that is no longer the case (and I a blood sister that is a rush advisor that has told me this). No matter where she ends up going, if she wants to go through rush, work on the recs. Ask your friends at work and church - you will be amazed at who is in the different groups. And not knowing where you live, your city may have a Panhellenic alumni group which are good resources.</p>