Autistic student seeking advice, should I keep trying to get instate tuition or give up?

Are there any colleges there that accomadate autistic students especially with housing? My issues would be the same at another place in North Carolina, as long as I am completely on my own in a seemingly foreign land, I’m certain that it’ll be a repeat of my issues last semester at UNC Asheville. If the college is in NC, it’ll be hours away from anything or anyone that I know which is my main concern.