Is that a lot of chores?
Our perspective is, in exchange for room and board, and the car we gave her, and her cell phone we pay for, and everything else we provide for her, she can do chores around the house. And we have dogs that shed so the house needs to be vacuumed more often.
It is hubby’s perspective more than mine. I just don’t know how to discuss it with him.
And we both love her very much, btw, and tell her we are proud of her. We are trying to prepare her for life.