<p>Now I am a “girl” and my parents didn’t watch or play organized sports.
The only team I was in school was track- although I have played pick up soccer and once I hit 50 plan to join a co-ed over 50 team.</p>
<p>Ive noticed that many companies now have rec teams, it apparently facilitates communication in the office to let out steam on the field-</p>
<p>Obviously younger children are discouraged from fighting - it’s far more difficult for younger children to grasp the kind of formalized self-policing involved in fights, and far more likely for the kids to get emotional and make the fight into something it shouldn’t be.</p>
<p>From what I have heard about little league it is generally the adults involved in the fighting anyway.</p>
<p>Ive never seen a baseball “fight” that alarmed me, even though the hometown did have Lou Pinella for a manager for several years ( several very good years).
We also had Dan Wilson , who was a great mediator, ( and Randy Johnson the great intimidator)
what a pair!</p>
<p>Ive heard about some pretty bizarre things happening at little league games though.
FOr instance recently the son of my husbands coworker was knocked out by a line drive into his forehead- the dad tried to rush out onto the field but was stopped by the ref. He ran to get ice and slid it onto the field and was thrown out of the game by the ref. The police were called- but by the ref to haul the dad away. ( I think the boy is ok- but the ref was insane IMO)</p>
<p>Ive also heard about parents being thrown out of the game because they are being verbally abusive, to their own kids!- </p>
<p>Compared to that, I think rugby is safe- most of the refs I have talked to play the game themselves, I don’t think some of these little league umps can say that.</p>
<p>( note that I say " compared to that", not that I think rugby is safe- concussions happen way too often- only no concussion is a good concussion)</p>
<p>but bumps and bruises are part of the game- we are physical creatures, we are made to hunt and use our bodies. We weren’t made to sit in front of a computer screen all day & take our aggression out on the roads or on the dog.</p>
<p>If you don’t want to watch a hockey match or a soccer match, don’t- personally I think organized sports especially at the amateur level can be a lot of fun.</p>
<p>My daughter has had the very good fortune to have been involved in teams with fantastic coaches and parents who are equally involved for the love of the game and watching their kids play- not to win at all costs, but to watch their kids having fun.</p>
<p>Baseball is slow for some, and it does move slower than other games- soccer for example. Still the players have to be at a high level of athleticism, not as high as basketball, but I think it is good to let out steam - I would rather see aggression be directly related to the ones affected, rather than say passing a bill that ultimately harms the ones you don’t like, or getting someone else to do your dirty work for you.</p>
<p>Get it out on the field and get it over with.</p>