I think, your son is playing soccer right? I think there is a sharper drop off in women’s basketball (from what I have seen) so top D3 is definitely in the mix. I personally would love her to play for the Amherst coach as he is pretty amazing but I wonder how long he will stay put given what a rockstar he is.
Is that something that one can ask a coach? “Hey coach X, are you planning to stay here for the next 5 years?”