You want to go to college to learn from others, to participate in college life. You need to be more open to trying new things, like studying with others in the room and making some compromises. You want to study by yourself? You can do that on Friday nights and have half the library to yourself. Sunday mornings? May be all yours. Tuesday nights at 7? Not so private.
A lot of your issues can be solved with a private room and a private bath. That will cost you. Also, you could be back on CC in six months saying that you haven’t made any friends and no one includes you in activities. Be open to new experiences.