@psata82 The third college was Pennsylvania State University (not University Park given numerous options in sub-campuses), but I don’t think it’s worth distance, cost, education and much more so I disregarded that.
Yipee, another person with different opinions. This entire issue has me so ambivalent but whatever, obviously I’ll listen. I only want the best option for myself, the power is vested in me but I believe I lack the reasoning to chose on my own.
I’m going to play Devil’s Advocate here, I’m receiving the advice, I should at least provide counter points from what I’ve heard collectively. I asked my college counselors, family, friends, CollegeConfidential (obviously) and the amount of mixed opinions is incredible. Time is closing and I have a week to decide. Again, it’s not like I don’t agree with you, but I’m going to provide you points that I’ve heard against attending colleges and your opinions.
(Obsession with Cornell University, laughed at that one because it’s true haha)
-A gap year would provide the student time to reevaluate his career, and for my case, I could use the time to sort of “catch up”. I’ve already studied intensively for the SAT Reasoning and numerous subject tests, I certainly wouldn’t like to make that time be in vain. Quite evidently, a 2100 is much better than a 1750, and I’ve researched that retaking the SAT would change a number of things, most importantly, my chance of being accepted in SUNY/CUNY will rise with it. Although my GPA will remain as bad forever, my extracurriculars will also increase (considering I’ve landed a few opportunities already and have till next week to commit to them) which will also increase my chances of being accepted into more fit institutions. But what do I mean by “more fit”? As you already know, I was accepted to colleges that don’t offer my major or anything close to it (except Penn State), so if I were to perhaps attend one of these colleges studying something in which I have zero interest, wouldn’t my GPA be lower as well? Considering the fact that students tend to be more likely to do better on areas of their interests, coupled with students who share distinct interests it’d be quite obvious that I wouldn’t feel comfortable in an institution that I can barely relate to. Perhaps I can “bear with it” and continue studying at JJ, but would I really receive the maximum amount of education in which I desire? Should I conform to the actions of others knowing it will “work out” because it went well for them?
The way you see things is that I can attend either one of the two institutions and transfer after two years, but, if I’m not mistaken, the colleges I seek will only look at the first year and my high school transcript. With the grade inflation at JJ and BMCC, how “admirable” is achieving a 4.0 (theoretically) after an 80 at a University that is incoherent to his intended major (JJ) or at a University where 4.0’s are given to most people (BMCC)? Maybe a little bit in their eyes. But wouldn’t it be more admirable for the aspiring STEM student to take a year off, do medical volunteer work, score a higher SAT along SAT subject tests, study abroad for a term at an established institution, self-study numerous subjects, perhaps land a job for a summer program and then reapply? Perhaps I may not achieve all of these opportunities, but most of them will put me under better positioning and perhaps a miracle may happen. Now some will say that I can do most of these things all while attending college, but I’d personally much rather start fresh. Like a previous user mentioned, transferring should be a “last option” in which many sacrifices are made like losing connection, GPA, possible recommendations and the list goes on.
As for the cost, well, really it would be nice to have free tuition and more, no working which means more studying but should I disregard a better option due to money? As for myself, I don’t care about the cost. I’d become a surgeon at minimum wage if required, it’s a personal aspiration of mine and if I need to live in a small apartment paying off student loans for the rest of my life knowing I achieved what I had longed for, I’d die content knowing that I had succeeded. However, as for the present, I believe my parents will do fine with me out of the house, although I pay a portion of the rent, the expenses of me being present succeed what I contribute. But as for “exacerbating medical condition” I don’t think that’s what you meant but either way mental illness and physical illness do not correlate in my situation.
I like your quote it’s true, but I don’t think I should submissively accept what I’m given. Those who succeed usually take the “shortcut.” I do however keep a poster in my room to return me to realism (the words are listed below), I tend to dream too much, those who’ve read my posts can assuredly agree.
I think I'm starting to ask for too much information really, maybe I'm presumptuous, but I apologize for the (poorly written) college essay and all the questions. I do not agree with all that I've stated in this post nor do I agree with all that psata82 said. If you believe I'm starting to get annoying make sure you say so! Thank you all for your contributions!
“Ambition is a wonderful force, but sometimes it can be blinding.” Ralph Ellison, Invisible Man