<p>First comment - a lot of these comments, I think, would be tempered by one’s circumstance - kids or no kids, living in center city or living in the suburbs. Big difference between living in Palo Alto and living in San Francisco.</p>
<p>I’ve raised three children in Northern New Jersey. Most people wouldn’t think this is a great place to live but it is if you’re raising children. We are an hour from some very beautiful beaches, we are an hour from mountains (with bears, wild turkeys, etc.), we’re 20 minutes from Manhattan, 10 minutes from Giants Stadium, and the community we live in is truly diverse (35 percent African-American, mix of economic classes, etc.). We’re 20 minutes from virtually any retail outlet/store you would ever need. And, believe it or not, traffic is manageable - New Jersey long ago was “built out” - our population is holding steady, most use good mass transit to get to work in Manhattan, etc. And the whole state is a grid of roads - I can drive to Cape May without ever getting on a major road. Most new areas of the country were built with everything ending in a cul-du-sac, feeding into larger and larger roads. In Northern Virginia, Dallas, Atlanta, etc. to get from one side of town to another you HAVE to get on a major feeder road or highway - effectively most suburban towns are actually large cul-du-sacs. I can drive from one side of my town to the other 500 different ways depending on the time of day, accidents, etc.</p>
<p>All that said - I’m ready to leave NJ due to the high taxes (12K on a 4 bedroom, 1/4 acre house) - and the absolutely disgustingly low level of politics and political discourse here. Our soon-to-be governor, Jon Corzine, spent $107-million to win a Senate seat and now a Governor’s seat. Our soon to be Senator Bob Menendez cheated on his wife and gave special public favors to his paramour, etc., etc. etc. And our former governor, Jim “I’m proud to be a gay American” McGreevey. No one here cared about his sexual persuasion but we did care about the corruption of his administration - he made his lover, a FOREIGN NATIONAL, head of State homeland security - he wasn’t even able to read confidential memoranda from the federal government.</p>
<p>Places we are considering moving to ( all center city so we can roll out of bed, have a cup of coffee in a local cafe, etc.): San Francisco (might have to live in a studio but would be worth it), Portland OR (beautiful, just the right size, great parks), Halifax, Nova Scotia (beautiful city, weather is about the same as Boston’s, LOBSTER), Montreal (beautiful, cosmopolitan, Quebecers like Americans more than they like - or dislike - Ontarians), Albuquerque, NM (Sandia), Flagstaff, AZ, San Luis Obispo, CA, Saratoga, NY.</p>