<p>GFG, Is your D a rising Junior or Senior? My D had no idea of what she wanted out of life during and through her sophomore year in high school. I could not even get her to look at colleges, let alone listen to me about them. That all changed by the end of her Junior year, and by then she knew what career she wants to work toward and which colleges appeal to her. Maybe you just need to give her more time.</p>