<p>What if your a smart person…who is a little shy…but not totally shy…and can spit game when he wants to…and can start up a convo when he wants to…not a super social person…is that a nerd…or a playa?</p>
<p>Maybe those guys were right about most women wanting to date worthless scum ****s who don’t deserve to breathe. Oh well!</p>
<p>Scareya, that’s inbetween.</p>
<p>How about those girls that don’t want to date?</p>
<p>Scareya: “Spit game?”</p>
<p>it’s a gansta term ppl use here…running game = spitting game</p>
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<p>source: <a href=“http://www.uwm.edu/~briancw2/dictionary.html#s[/url]”>http://www.uwm.edu/~briancw2/dictionary.html#s</a></p>
<p>btw…i guess im an in between…although i rarely spit game…cuz im not like that</p>
<p>ok last post i swearrr. frickin procrastination.</p>
<p>so what i meant inside the question: do you value security (at the price of boredom) or adventure (at the price of physical and emotional damage) more?</p>
<p>and my answer was security. so yes, i think we can conclude now that many girls value adventure over security and guys as well (?). though i think guys generally tend to say they like “sluts”, but actually don’t like them, except to look at. so i’d say guys might value security more.</p>
<p>ok self-control have…to…study. bye.</p>
<p>you bring up a good point…its a struggle between security and adventure…and if you can…you might find someone who’s got both</p>
<p>why cant you just look for both?</p>
<p>its not that difficult…ive been rather successful this far even with these apparent high standards.</p>
<p>ok last post. anyways, i just wanted to see what ppl were more attracted to in relationships. and i would have to say adventure (for girls). bcuz only 2 boys answered the question. so when ppl are always saying why do my relationships never work?, the answer is most likely: cuz you’re looking for the wrong type of person (subconsciously). if you can find both, its hard, bcuz they’re contradictory: ex- a person who parties and is a playa but also is loyal only to you and shy? </p>
<p>anyways interesting discussion. ok the end.</p>
<p>Yeah, but someone that’s adventurous doesn’t have to be a player, and someone that’s loyal doesn’t have to be a nerd.</p>
<p>What about all the outdoorsy guys, they’ve got to be the prototypes for adventurous and loyal guys.</p>
<p>You’re totally right ^. But what are the chances you get a loyal playa?</p>
<p>Does hunting and plinking count as outdoorsy?</p>
<p>Well, I was going more for the fisher, camper, hiker type, but…</p>
<p>I see where you’re coming from…but that’s a different type of adventurous.</p>
<p>It’s still some type of adventurous.</p>
<p>Camping is yucky. Fishing is ok. Hiking has no value to me.</p>
<p>But camping can be really fun if you’re with a ton of friends!</p>
<p>So is streaking.</p>
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<p>Of course it’s a type of adventure…but its different from what I think wendyling was talking about.</p>
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<p>It’s fun until the skunks decide to pay the area outside of your tents a little visit…and you can’t go to sleep until you’re sure the skunk is gone.</p>
<p>Well, adventurous really doesn’t come to my mind when I think about what she was explaining.</p>
<p>Also, I usually have more problems with raccoons than with skunks.</p>