<p>I would suggest the small liberal arts colleges (LACs), especially those in the midwest. The small class sizes and close relationships between the students fosters a more nurturing, uncompetitive environment, even when the academics are very demanding. I suggest the midwest where ‘sharp elbows’ are generally frowned on and understatement is the norm, culturally (as opposed to the east coast, where we live). For an excellent student, you might take a look at Grinnell, Carleton, Macalester and Oberlin-all highly regarded LACs with non-competitive cultures.</p>