<p>Sylvan: this is a conversation I have with my daughter quite regularly. I don’t think anyone deserves to be hit by a car. BUT… </p>
<p>While I think it is the responsibility of all of us to try to avoid hitting cars, pedestrians, cyclists, strollers, etc., I think that it is ALSO the responsibility of the other drivers, pedestrians, cyclists, moms, dads, etc., to try to avoid BEING HIT. Thus, I look both ways and then move quickly when I walk across the street. I wear bright colors when I cycle–and look for colors never found in nature, as well. I try to be in places where I will be easily seen. Cyclists on sidewalks are not easily seen. Therefore, I think it’s a dangerous place to be.</p>