I’m going to double down on @blossom’s post: you have dropped hints in your other posts that your daughter, although a very strong student, is not in the top tier of students in her class. I wonder if you are keen on JHU and UPenn b/c you can see that HYPSM won’t happen, and these are the ‘next best’ names. The thing is they still reject 90+% of their applicants.
Think about how you will cope- and what message your daughter will get from you- if she is in that 90%.
Think about what other schools would be “good enough” but have higher acceptance rates that you can get behind.
This last admissions cycle was all over the map, and a lot of super-strong students found themselves going way down their lists. Nobody knows if next year will be the same, so work hard to find schools that both of you can be happy with.