I think you need to apply to the SUNYs now, not wait until you hear from other schools. The SUNYs are great schools and some are getting pretty competitive for admissions.
I agree that you need to broaden your choice of majors. I don’t see a Media Studies & Culture major at Binghamton. Purchase has one, but it’s a Master’s program. If you’re looking for film then Buffalo, Fredonia, and Purchase should all be on your list. If you don’t get enough money for residential college you can do 2 years at a cc then transfer. If you take the federal student loan the first 2 years and save it you could use the money for the last 2 years at whatever school you transfer to.