<p>Thanks for the link, Marite. This article is affirming to me considering the advice we’ve given our first-born (like most first-borns, he’s our test case!). Our son would be considered a top scorer, but he never wanted to take an SATI or II more than twice, and he has only applied to 6 colleges (and 2 are UCs that used the same application, one of which is just a financial safety… so really, just 5 apps). He has a rather eclectic course history both in high school and his college classes because he followed his interests at the time. His ECs were chosen based on his own interests, though one EC he might have dropped this year due to a time crunch and being a little bored with it, but he didn’t because we all thought it might look bad on the apps. </p>
<p>I think there’s a balance that needs to be struck: at one extreme is molding a child to fit what you guess a college might go gaga over; at the other is completely disregarding what colleges value in students. Probably the best bet is to be aware of what they value and do a little bit of adjusting or polishing so that the kid’s natural interests and abilities eventually are presented in a good light. An example of this might be choosing to do required community service (a lot of high schools now require a certain number of hours by graduation) in a field that aligns with their interests or talents rather than just at some random place. Another example, might be advising your child to choose a harder course over an easier one, even though it’s pretty certain it will result in a B rather than an A. Like so much in life, moderation is a good idea.</p>
<p>I know a senior who applied to 23 colleges. I can’t imagine the paperwork, money and time that went into them. And, as someone already noted, she can only go to one.</p>