There is a very fun and also competitive club soccer team at Bowdoin with players like your son - highly competitive in HS and Club soccer but not recruited and/or wanting to play varsity. The team has a uniform, travels to other schools to play, and is fun. He might want to check it out. It was exactly what my soccer fanatic son was looking for in college. There is also intramural soccer as well, but that is very low key (and tons of fun!).
Great idea! I think he will miss that team camaraderie (he’s played soccer since he was 5 years old) so I’ll definitely suggest that to him. Thanks!