<p>teddad – a couple of basic questions (sorry if you’ve already relayed this) – is your D a high school senior who has been accepted to Vassar and other schools and is now choosing where to go? Or did she apply early and this is where she’s going? Also – has she been in any relationships yet? I think if she has already had some experience being in a relationship she will be better able to navigate a slightly skewed male/female balance, but if she is thinking it’ll be easy to meet men and date in college, then the imbalance is something you should discuss. If she is committed to going to Vassar, perhaps discuss ways she could counter that (junior year abroad?)</p>
<p>Good luck</p>