<p>I sense an undercurrent of something that feels kind of ugly but is hard for me to name when this subject comes up…something like “why would men want to go to what was a women’s college”, “they must be gay”, “the women must be unhappy”…something.</p>
<p>Just an observation.
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Full disclosure: I attended Vassar in the 80’s but transferred, not because of any gender issues (I thought that was just fine - many men from my HS went to Vassar), but because I wanted to be back in NYC.*</p>