<p>^^She got the waiver two years ago and subsequently did not have to file other appeals. </p>
<p>I just wanted to bring the personal example so people understand the circumstances but also the possibilities. The schools policies were written baed on the average family where parents are married for years, then divorce. Absence of the parent since the early years, or non-marriage, make a strong case towards establishing non-parental involvement. But tangible proof is needed. As cptain said, many non-custodial parents behave just like some families that they do not believe they should contribute anything towards tuition because they have their retirement, early retirement, travel plans, purchase of new car, oh so many frivolous expenses, and after all they are only middle class even though they make over 200k a year. Indeed, every one should have a financial safety but also should not hesitate to apply to a ncs-profile school. Most important, do not procrastinate until after admissions is offered. Be proactive and send all the info in advance. Do not readjudigate the bitterness, hostility among parents, but make your case in a clear manner and support it through evidence why you should get the waiver.</p>