<p>The truth: you see men if you leave campus. Or, if you have friends who have male friends on other campuses. Or, you make friends with the token male that may happen to be in one of your classes.</p>
<p>For the most part, you don’t see men on campus (other than professors). I’m not going to sugarcoat it for you. It is possible to see guys, but you really do have to be proactive about it. And another truth - you’ll most likely get so caught up with doing schoolwork that you won’t have time to go meet the men at nearby colleges. So, again, you really do have to set aside time to a. leave campus and b. meet guys. It’s manageable, but it’s not going to be as easy as it was in high school.</p>
<p>However, it’s my personal opinion that you should choose a college based on its educational value, and how much you will be able to grow as a person once you get there. If you’re wittling your choices down to whether or not you’ll be able to meet guys (and i’m not saying this to the OP, I’m saying this to anyone who’s reading this) I think you really need to reconsider coming to Wellesley, because you may find yourself very unhappy come this time next year.</p>