As you can see, everyone’s taste differs. For instance, H and I only drink red. I would therefore not give wine. Or how about making up a basket of “stuff” such as a a small bottle of red and white (Pinot Noir and Pinot Grigio or Cabernet and Chardonnay etc.), some crackers, a small box of fine chocolate truffles and anything else you want ( or not) to add, such as, a pack of nice coasters and/or napkins, a jar of olives, nuts, etc, etc. A little more work, but there is probably something in the basket s/he likes. Haha.