i emailed asking, for my own knowledge, why I was rejected. I may get an answer, I may not, but I figured it didn’t hurt to ask. I really did everything I could. truly thought I would get deferred. good luck to everyone and if its not Bryn Mawr, then it’ll be somewhere else just as great.
i’m going to put all
my energy into my second choice, Oberlin. They seem to be a bit more holistic than bryn mawr, I’ve seen people with hugely widespread stats and situations get in. So maybe there’s hope.
And you aren’t defined by where you go to school. Ultimately, it won’t get you a job or lose you one. Every one wants their first choice, but there are loads of places to make memories and get an education. We just have to find them.