@groel We are low-carb, so dinner rolls aren’t a good fit for us.
(I’m totally kidding. The fact that the school had a strong enough opinion on how my kid should butter a roll that it made the student handbook was… surprising… to me.)
Oh I’ll also add as a resource:
YouTube videos from the school! So many more videos there than on most of the school websites. You really get to see the kids in motion with one another. We looked very closely at the body language, and at the faces of the kids who were not necessarily the “star” of the video – the kids in the background – how did they look like they were relating to one another? How much laughter and hugging and physical closeness is there? Or did kids look like they were patiently just tolerating the event. (We saw this vibe at more than one school. The “star” of the video, aware of the camera, was super cheery and upbeat, but the rest of the student body definitely did not match that energy.)