<p>I had pretty much the same BDD experience as entomom. In my case, the main reason for me tagging along was that I had not seen Yale’s campus in over 20 years (DH and S had done the northeast college tour) and I wanted to get the chance to see it for myself. S and I parted ways at Phelps Gate and although I saw him from afar once or twice, we didn’t re-connect until it was time to leave. There were some programs aimed at parents, a few of which I attended; I met a relative who lives nearby for lunch; I did a campus tour; and I basically just wandered around in the gorgeous spring weather and wished that I was the one going there! :)</p>