<p>From FountainSiren:</p>
<p>"Any rules regarding potential offspring? </p>
<p>You didnt seem to feel the need to mention any, while being very concerned with either half of this union of adults, so I was just wondering if marriage stipulates any responsibilities the two adults might have to the potential and statistically likely children born to such a union
in addition to the two individuals who chose to have their emotional/sexual/financial union while accruing all the other privileges that attach to it without having to dilute it to any extent by adding the children marriage at one time aimed to protect (along with the woman, who, in times past, did not share the social rights of the man they married and were granted somelimitedsocial protection through the institution of marriage)."</p>
<p>FountainSiren - I’m actually not at all clear about what you’re trying to say here. I think the short answer is that a very large part of the set of rules designed to govern the relationship between married people has to do with children, and the parents’ rights and responsibilities regarding them - and as it’s a very important set of issues, I think that those rules should apply to all parents - whether heterosexual or not. I mean - homosexuals have children, too. In the finite set of people I personally know, there are childless heterosexual couples, childless homosexual couples, heterosexual couples with children, homosexual couples with children, heterosexual couples who are (I believe) the biological parents of their children, heterosexual parents who (I know) are not the biological parents of their children, couples where one of the parents is the biological parent and the other is not, etc. Children are important - regardless of how they got here - and the rights and responsibilities of those who are members of their family - biologically related or not - are a big ticket item. It is very important to have a well thought out set of rules to guide those relationships, because people screw up. I don’t see why those rules should not apply to homosexual couples the same way they do to heterosexual couples. Does that answer your question?</p>
<p>Next, you accuse me of being judgmental. That’s true. I make judgments, it’s what I’ve learned to do as I got older. I used to be much less judgmental, because I had little experience to test my interactions with people against. When I was in college I tended to take people at face value; I’m less likely to do that now, as my experience in the intervening decades has tended to show me that many people tend to put a false face on their true feelings. So I judge people more by their actions than their words. </p>
<p>And the actions of the majority of people who claim to “love the sinner” doesn’t square with “love” to me. What I see is people who want to treat the sinners as being worthy of less respect, rights and privileges than the “non-sinners”. Because basically they feel they shouldn’t be sinners (Pretty logical, when you think about it.) So by defining a person’s basic biological makeup as being sinful, well, you’ve pretty much determined they’re unworthy, haven’t you? And the discussion about homosexuals is, to me, Exhibit A.</p>
<p>So yeah, I find that most people who claim to “love” the sinners are sanctimonious hypocrites who are spouting a well crafted line to cover their inherent dehumanization of the “sinners”. Sorry.</p>