I don’t know enough to make a good football list, but your list without football/maybe football seems ok, but run the net price calculators as others have said. If you won’t get need based aid, schools like Bowdoin won’t be $60k.
I would consider a PG year, if affordable, especially if you potentially are non-Ivy D1 caliber.
No less reachy than Bowdoin and the rest of its peers.