Thanks everyone for your input.
Believe me I know my D is too young to figure out where she wants to go to college.I understand that there is a good chance she doesn’t play in College. This is why I push her and all my kids to get great grades. As the NCAA said, most of us go pro in something other than sports. So I understand this all sounds crazy, it sounds crazy to me.
For now, she will keep emailing coaches. Maybe next year we will revisit calling a coach again.