gointhruaphase - I understand what you are saying. It is all so tough to wrap your mind around at times.
There are asst college coaches at her club that she might be able to talk to about showing up to watch a spring practice.
As far as making sure she is ready to be seen by a coach, not a lot I can do there. Do I think she is ready, sometimes I do and sometimes I dont. I do know that she has a lot of improving to do. From what I have read GKs do not peak until they are in their 20’s if they make it that far.
Coaches will come around because of the league she plays in. Some of her games are better then others. There are 2 Gks on the team and the split halves, so she only gets a half on the field to show anything.
Thanks again for your input