<p>@michaelite OP you just need to be realistic about your school choices & create a balanced list, that’s all. Some of these schools either are reaches for everyone or won’t give you much money. </p>
<p>".I love coding and i love physics"</p>
<p>It looks to me like you do have a focus. Those interests are as good as any. And they do not make you “yet another math oriented Indian boy” -you have more than that going on for you (your EC’s/passion for sports).</p>
<p>".i want a college that would equip me to face the world,to help me know what exactly I want of life and make the best of my talents"</p>
<p>There are plenty of schools here in the US where you can do that -not just Stanford & MIT.</p>
<p>“this might seem a very narcissistic statement to make,but I’ve rarely encountered kids as as good at me at things I like the best…that might be because I’m a small town kid with very little exposure to the rest of the world”</p>
<p>Well, maybe in such a small town you might not find peers who care enough about their future or simply don’t have the opportunities to do so…Happens to a lot of people everywhere, kids who go to schools where it’s very easy to be at the top of the class. The fact itself isn’t narcissistic, but the manner in which it’s pointed out can be…You might wanna avoid mentioning this in an essay.</p>
<p>“how does a clueless outsider like me decide where to go except by the opinions of those around him…or internet ranking…or “prestige”.”</p>
<p>We understand that in some cultures, there’s a heavy emphasis on prestige. However, this is something all college applicants have to let go of at some point in order to find a school where they’ll thrive/be happy/succeed. You need to focus 1st on narrowing down schools which would be affordable, 2nd on finding your “fit,” & 3rd on creating a balanced reaches/matches/safeties list adjusted for your circumstances. If you’re willing to accept that prestige is relative/isn’t as important as it seems, we can help you do that. </p>
<p>Yes, your odds are low -like all internationals’ are. But your 25k/year budget + your tennis involvement (which could even be a hook at some colleges) put you in a better spot.</p>