@taylor11 I would wait until Fall of 2020. That would be much less risky for you and your family. You could be more certain that this would be affordable and that credits would transfer. It is a lot of risk just because you are impatient. It does seem like a great opportunity but it will be there in two years. It only seems like forever when you are young.
Sometimes high loans can work out but there have been many, many cases where this much debt is devastating. That is why we are cautioning you. Out of concern for you and your family.