Can i get into Hotchkiss, Deerfield, Groton, or Saint Paul's

Welcome! You tick a lot of boxes academically. Would love to see passion in one or more pursuit (it may be there…just not clear from your post). FA status will be a factor, as will ORM/URM status.

PLEASE read through the many chance-me threads until you find ones wherein parents patiently walk through the STRONG recommendation that you broaden your search to include more schools including some that are less competitive for entry. Every year these schools reject 80+% of their applicants. Think about that. Then think about this: many of them have stats that look just like yours. And they don’t get in either. You’re qualified! But there’s no such thing as a shoe-in (unless there’s something you’re not telling us).

Not trying to discourage you. Trying to help you see the importance of broadening your search so that you have options M10. You can do it!