And the address you use for colleges needs to be the place where you actually sleep. If you don’t live in Virginia, you won’t be graduating from a Virginia high school. You need to check to see if your dad’s residency there entitles you to instate status. In some states it might. I’m not sure about Virginia. @Mwfan1921 do you know?
IIRC, UVA requires both the custodial and non-custodial parent information for determining aid…but it sounds like you are just looking for instate status for admissions and tuition purposes.
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