I’ve always been a fan of this thread, so:
Full IB Diploma Candidate: SL Spanish, Psych, Enviro, Math; HL History, Bio, and English
3.9 UW/4.9 weighted (this might be a little off, but one B and two unweighted classes (band)
Also took AP Seminar, APUSH, AP Euro, AP Stats, AP Lang, AP Lit, AP Calc AB; calc not back yet, rest were 5s except APUSH (4)
Top 10% of class
No physics (chose Enviro instead)
ACT 36, one sitting, submitted everywhere, as one would! (btw SAT was 1500, so a big difference here, although he had a weird testing day with some issues. My other kid did much better on the SAT than the ACT)
Two years marching band, two years soccer, two years ultimate frisbee (casual)
Two years lifeguard job
Competitive chess player, but no significant titles or anything
100ish service hours, environment-focused, but nothing too standout
No leadership positions on anything. No awards of any significance. Missed National Merit by a hair.
Letters of rec were probably nice but nothing incredible
Results:
Bowdoin- Waitlist
Bates- Waitlist
Sewanee - Accepted with merit
Macalester - Accepted with merit and need-based package
UVM - Accepted with merit, Honors College
Colorado College - Accepted with small merit (mostly need based)
Middlebury - Accepted, need-based package
FSU (in state) - Accepted, full Bright Futures plus a small additional scholarship
Carleton - Accepted, need-based package
Vassar - Accepted, need-based package, attending
All along I wondered if his high stats would make up for sort of “average” activities etc. He was definitely disappointed about Bowdoin, but I feel like he did great. He really didn’t show interest in Bates.
We have moderate need and most of these came in about the same cost, except FSU (very cheap due to in state scholarship) and surprisingly, MIddlebury, with an initial COA about 20k more than Carleton, his best offer. They gave him an additional 10k on appeal, but ultimately he chose Vassar.
The lesson for me as a parent that I did not fully understand my first go-round is that if you have moderate need, merit-based packages and need-based packages may net out about the same or close. For instance, Sewanee gave my kid their top merit package (aside from a few full rides) but his COA there was functionally about the same as his offers at need-based schools. Macalester gave merit, but cost more than Vassar or Carleton.
I was so worried about getting merit the first time, but need-based only would have been fine. I think we forget to emphasize that need-based can be great even for UMC families…it obviously isn’t if you’re full pay, but we aren’t, although I consider us to be doing well financially.