@motherbear332 Are you sure about that? I have two in college and I cant even get bursars offices or advisors to talk to me without the student in the room.
You are the boss of you.
Your mother is trying to make you think that she is, but she isn’t.
You need to get away from her, as soon as possible.
Be creative: Can you stay with a friend, normal relative, women’s shelter, ??