<p>^ Yup I agree that it matches my personal observation as well (which I realize is just a slice of reality). You certainly see it on CC as well. And these are just the events and situations that you are privvy too… imagine what goes on that you do not see (in the form of very implicit pressure, disappointments conveyed, a whole 18 years of maybe less tha visible but extremely powerful socializing kids to be grade obsessed etc.).</p>