No doubt different people have different stress points. When my son was in kindergarten, I chaperoned a class trip to the local zoo. His teacher was a 30 year vet (25 years teaching kindergarten). Kids were very well behaved that day and had a great time (so did I). They were a little loud and excited on the bus rides to and from the zoo but that is to be expected for a group of 5 year old kids. Part of that was having an experienced teacher. Other part was its a good school district with kids who tend to do well and with few problems (this particular class had more than its share of high achieving kids and fewer problems/issues over their 13 years in the district).
But on the bus ride back to school (was about 2 pm), with the kids acting like kids the teacher turned to me and said she bets I was looking forward to being back in the office the next day. I wanted to ask her if she was kidding because that day was a walk in the park (literally and figuratively). Phone wasn’t ringing. No one coming into my office asking for stuff. I didn’t say that though. I just said that I was headed downtown to my office when I got back to school. Had to get that day’s work done.
Different people handle different stresses differently. That which totally stresses one person out is taken in stride by someone else. To me, if you get totally stressed out by normal issues in any given job/career, you should think about another job/career. I am not talking about finding something with no stress at all just those that make you miserable. Pay/comp may be higher but is it worth it? Miserable comes with a high price itself. Though ultimately people make their own choices/balance decisions.
If any school district has sufficient teachers with abilities that work at any given pay/comp level, I don’t think its the district’s concern whether its teachers can afford Ivy colleges (seems to me though issue isn’t so much the Ivies with high endowments but rather other top schools which do not because the slots open in Ivies are pretty small overall but thats another discussion). Or whether they can afford to live in any given neighborhood, buy any given car, take any given vacation, etc. Now at some point, those issues may impact getting the needed number of qualified teachers. But if you are getting the number of qualified teachers you need, you are fine.
If you are not, you need to look at increasing those numbers or being able to live with fewer than you would otherwise want. Higher pay. More benefits. Increasing pay typically requires some type of tax increase which in today’s political climate isn’t necessarily a given. Are there other services that can be cut freeing up funds? Same analysis applies to other government jobs. And private sector jobs as well (though the tax issue doesn’t exist but additional funds are still needed to increase benefits).
I think its important to look at issues facing public schools. I think we need to address issues with our public schools rather than taking steps which will hurt them. And in reality, we have a lot of great public schools. Particularly suburban districts. Though in terms of money and better teachers in failing schools, I do not see that necessarily as the answer. Many of the worst school districts where I live spend more (often times up to double) per student what the strong school districts pay. And teachers in those failing districts are often very qualified, care a lot and work very hard. Issue is more with the kids than anything. Talking recently with a couple teachers in one of the worst local districts, they said there has been a significant change in the past 10-15 years. None of the kids care. None of them will listen. School reminded me more of a prison (admins walking around with whistles and bullhorns and locked dividers all over the school which make navigating the halls difficult) than a school. Spending more money won’t help. Hiring better qualified teachers (however defined) won’t help. Those teachers cared. A lot. But you could see the despair on their faces and hear the despair in their voices.
School choice is heard a lot as a solution. But from what I have seen, its not clear they work. And often times they make things more challenging on schools who are already struggling. And often times supporters are really just looking for a way of subsidizing their own kids’ private school tuition.
Impact of parents who care is huge in terms of outcomes. What to do when they do not is a significant and very challenging problem.