<p>Thanks so much for all the wonderful advice and excellent ideas - we are exhausted (finally found a rental house, signed the new lease yesterday, and we’re scrambling to move on top of schedules that are already overwhelmed), so we haven’t had a chance to circle back to this yet. CGM I agree she doesn’t want to look like him - she will want to look like a girl, and she will want to wear a nice dress, and, I think the little black dress is what she’ll end up doing. </p>
<p>I’m in NYC tomorrow (where I’m hearing it’s like a zillion degrees below zero - brrrrr), but some free time Wednesday afternoon, maybe I can shop for a coat for her while I’m there. Mom60 good idea re Ross, we have those here, I’ll try that too, or encourage her to try that option. </p>
<p>I hate shopping when you HAVE to have something - it seems like when you don’t need anything and just wandering around shops, you find fabulous clothing and endless, awesome choices - and actually, when you really don’t have any money to spend that works double - but, when you just have to have a particular thing, and especially if you’re prepared to pay for it no matter what the price - you cannot find it no matter how hard you try…</p>