<p>“thats not my thinking…and i said sadly enough… i mean if you said some URMs don’t deserve to get in…what about athletes, money donors, and legacies…”</p>
<p>i didn’t mean that you in particular think that way, i just meant that it’s sad that there are people who hold that belief…and i’m sure many of the people (urms, orms, legacies, athletes, etc.) who get into certain colleges don’t necessairly “deserve” to get in-well, no one “deserves” an acceptance… but, as the saying goes, “life isn’t fair”, and colleges aren’t exactly meritocracies, so… i guess people just need to deal with whatever happens. everything happens for a reason, right?</p>
<p>…oh yeah, sorry if any of that was unclear, but i’m seriously semi-conscious right now… 
oh, and i missed the “sadly enough” part of your post-sorry!</p>