Here’s my advice, keep an open mind. The vast majority of high school graduates wanting to be doctors, decide to major in something else, because they find passions elsewhere. I was one of them also 
Also, it’s just not worth paying triple the cost to go out of state when you have a perfectly good in-state university. If you want medical school, you need to keep debt at a minimum. Medical school is ridiculously expensive. Stay in-state. If you don’t decide medical school, you’re not going to drown in debt. If you do decide medical school, you’re not going to drown in debt. So…stay away from debt.
Also, I do NOT recommend a BSMD program. It’s way too premature for a high-schooler to be making a decision like that without first giving them a chance to explore their passions in college. I recommend the traditional route.