Big doesn’t mean affordable. They still will have a cost. Scranton is $71k. They don’t show aid in their common data set but you’d need $35k to equal PSU.
Theyr website shows $26-$32k with possibility of full tuition.
If PSU is too high, you can look at schools like WVU or go South - Bama - you’d be low 20s. Ole Miss/ Miss State would be less. Louisville may be lower than PSU. I suspect you’d be branched at PSU but hopefully I’m wrong. How about Pitt or Temple ?
For private and closer, York might get you lower. I hear SJU goes low too.
But yep, the budget is what drives all. Good luck. Glad you will talk to your folks. Go over the Richmond NPC I linked above. Perhaps you will qualify for aid.