You seem very impressive! I would just echo what @tsbna44 said, which is to look into the Johnson scholarship at Washington and Lee University. W&L is a selective school, looking to increase its diversity, with strong ties to Washington. I am persuaded that, despite its troubling history, it’s making big efforts to overcome the past. That said, it is not for everyone. But, worth a look.
Have you run net price calculators? From what you’ve written you would qualify for financial aid, so focusing on schools with good aid (let alone merit) would seem to be a good strategy.