Chances for asian males from top NY public HSs are very tough at the schools you are interested in.
Son graduated from top ranked NY public (#1 ranked US public by WSJ) about 5 years ago and most STEM kids with stats and demographics similar to yours ended up at schools like Georgia Tech, CMU, Wustl, Vassar, etc.
The ones who made it into HYPMS level had things like semi-finalist or better from top science fairs, college level math course work at top colleges with outstanding grades and recommendations from professors, top summer programs like RSI, legacy bumps.
You’re doing great so far.