Based on the information you’ve provided thus far, you seem to have overestimated your chances at many of the schools you’ve listed.
UW Seattle isn’t a safety for any OOS applicant. The UCs are tough too - experts like @Gumbymom can guide you better once you calculate and post your UC GPAs using this link: GPA Calculator for the University of California – RogerHub
CMU and UMich are reaches.
What is your budget? What have your parents told you that they can comfortably afford to pay?
Are you sure neither of them has gone to college anywhere in the world?
What about at the other private schools on your list?