UMichican is terrific for all of your interests. OOS full-pay is less than Gtown full pay. William and Mary is another top-notch school. Both of these should meet your parents criterion of “somewhere good!”
Do you have particular study-abroad aspirations? (For example, if you want to study in Japan, Temple University might appeal, as they have their own campus in Tokyo.)
If you’d consider the west coast, the Claremont Colleges are terrific for IR and Asian languages. They’d all be reaches, though; Scripps could be a high-match but decisions are unpredictable.
Safeties: Dickinson and Brandeis are both very internationally oriented and good for undergrad IR. U of Delaware has some interesting IR programs (Look into the World Scholars program) and is close to DC and has a great campus environment and some nice merit awards for high-stat students. As previously mentioned, Temple: you can do a whole degree at Temple Japan, fwiw, or study abroad there as a main campus student.
Matches: URochester, Boston U
Reaches: Tufts, BC, Tulane, UMich, W&M