I am seconding @tsbna44‘s suggestion of Purdue. If you look at the Purdue Data Digest, here: https://www.purdue.edu/datadigest/; and especially the links to “Applications, Admits, and Matriculations” and “New First-Time Beginner Profile”, you can plug in your stats to some of the interactive links on these sites, and perhaps get an idea where you might fall relative to recently admitted OOS applicants to Purdue. I think that you would be a viable candidate for Purdue (although there are no givens in college admissions to top schools). If cost is going to be a factor, then UAH and Alabama, as @tsbna44 also mentions, should be looked at.
No matter what school, you need to sit down with your parents and have a frank discussion about money; “parents don’t seem to be very concerned” doesn’t necessarily equate to “they are willing and able to pay for whatever school I want to go to.”