You are what is called “average excellent”, which is translated as high grades, very nice ECs, very nice test scores, but no achievement that is best in state, or best in nation, or international level.
That’s why people are saying congrats on Stony Brook (which would be a great school for you, and affordable, too), and that you probably will get into RPI and Rochester, and have a chance at the others, but might not get into any of them. If you do, you would definitely be able to hold your own, academically, at any of them.