Ok, this I can agree with. I can develop soft skills from doing internships and going to networking dinners etc. I understand the value in that. I am not deficient in that area, and am actively improving those skills. I think that the overhyping of college workload and the ominous warnings saying that you can only make a little money doing a job etc. are based on the assumption that weekly sports games, romantic dates, ‘‘going out with friends’’, etc. are essential.