Honestly, I think you’ll get rejected at most of the schools on your list. I don’t see evidence of maturity or poise in your responses, instead you sound argumentative. You appear uninterested in truly knowing the differences between the schools on your list and that is going to come through in your application. Your grades and ECS are below most applicants for schools of this caliber.
You mention you worked at a summer camp and have “good connections,” that one of your recommenders is a St. Lawrence alum, and that your high school is a feeder to St. Lawrence with a “90% acceptance rate.” I think daddy’s alma mater is clearly the school for you, and your legacy status will help ensure acceptance.