Obviously way too many schools, I assume this is your preliminary list?
I think you could move these to the Match bucket. And unless you really love NYU, I wouldn’t waste your ED2 currency there. I don’t think you’ll have trouble getting admitted RD.
Because you’re OOS, Chapel Hill should be considered a reach. They have a state mandate that 86% of students come from NC.
These are not the strongest choices for business. Have you considered Georgetown McDonough and CMU Tepper? Good luck to you. You’re an accomplished student with a shot at all these places but be realistic as you pair them down and do discuss the $ with your parents.